Male vs Female British Shorthair — Which Makes the Better Pet?

British Shorthair Lilac Cat 🎀 Lana and British Shortrhair Black Cat 🎩 Urgant

One of the most common questions future cat owners ask is: “Should I choose a male or a female British Shorthair?” Having lived with both boys and girls for many years, we can honestly say that each has unique qualities — and the choice depends mostly on your lifestyle and expectations.

Male British Shorthairs

Male British Shorthair cats are often described as true “gentle giants.”

• They are usually more affectionate and people-oriented.
• Many boys enjoy sitting on laps, following their humans around, and asking for cuddles.
• They tend to be larger and more powerful in build, with the classic teddy-bear look that makes the breed so beloved.
• In many families, males are considered the more sociable choice, seeking attention from everyone in the household.

Female British Shorthairs

Female British Shorthair cats have their own charm.

• They are often more independent and reserved compared to males.
• Queens are intelligent, graceful, and sometimes prefer to decide when they want attention.
• They are usually slightly smaller in size but equally stunning in appearance.
• Many owners say females form very deep and loyal bonds, even if they are not as constantly demanding of affection as males.

Which is Better for You?

There is no absolute answer — both male and female British Shorthairs make wonderful companions. If you dream of a large, affectionate, and easygoing “teddy bear,” a male might be the right choice. If you prefer a graceful, independent, and elegant cat who still loves her family, a female may suit you better.

Whichever you choose, both genders share the same hallmark traits of the British Shorthair breed: calm temperament, good health, intelligence, and strong bonds with their families.

If you are considering adding one of these wonderful cats to your home, you can explore our available kittens — each one is raised with love and care to become a cherished companion for many years to come.

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